"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So this chick is 25.

Livinlifehard

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well she is about to be 25 a Middle school teacher, looks cute (not a bomb shell but i am getting my game back). So i messaged her on this site, and then she gave me her myspace and says that she likes me and what i have to offer so far (looks, how my message was "your not a horn dog" boy is she mistaken lol, and what i do). so she seems normal, how long till i should email her back? and should i play games with this one, she seems respectful.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ObieJuan

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If she's interested she'll make it pretty easy for you...waiting a day or so helps sometimes when you can't tell the girl's interest level- but in this case it isn't such a big deal- just vibe with her, set something up and it's done.
 

Chemistry

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Yawn...

Quit with the e-mail BS... you've found this chick online, ok... get her somewhere in person now and start on the path to fvckin her... lets see how good your game is
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scorched

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yeah, ask her out, then she will give you her number

but you've still got to keep he challenged...
 

Scorched

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Ashley Chuckles said:
Yawn...

Quit with the e-mail BS... you've found this chick online, ok... get her somewhere in person now and start on the path to fvckin her... lets see how good your game is
That was a bit rude...
 
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