"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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elmnick

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I hate to be asking questions related to my specific situation, I don't really think its what sosuave is for and for that I apoligise in advance, but yet...

Basically:
I like girl, know her reasonably well, not good friends though, been texting her for a while also(haven't spoken on phone before), lil flirty maybe, nothing much
She probably has it figured that I like her, no idea if she likes me, though we get on well
I ring intending to see if she wants to get together Thursday evening, dunno if she would have said yay or nay, no reason why she would say nay though, but nothing ventured nothing gained
her phone was off
she texts saying "sorry I missed you..another time...not now though cause its bedtime"

what is my best move now? :confused:

and yes, I do feel a bit silly asking this on an internet forum, but SoSuave is no place for pride methinks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't see where you have errored...just follow up her call as the poster above me mentioned and you'll get your answer.
 
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Yeah i agree with Herman, your on the right track. The only thing i would suggest is that you don't ask her if she likes you. You shouldn't tell her either , if it's goin to work , it will.
 
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