"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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elmnick

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I hate to be asking questions related to my specific situation, I don't really think its what sosuave is for and for that I apoligise in advance, but yet...

Basically:
I like girl, know her reasonably well, not good friends though, been texting her for a while also(haven't spoken on phone before), lil flirty maybe, nothing much
She probably has it figured that I like her, no idea if she likes me, though we get on well
I ring intending to see if she wants to get together Thursday evening, dunno if she would have said yay or nay, no reason why she would say nay though, but nothing ventured nothing gained
her phone was off
she texts saying "sorry I missed you..another time...not now though cause its bedtime"

what is my best move now? :confused:

and yes, I do feel a bit silly asking this on an internet forum, but SoSuave is no place for pride methinks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Heman6

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I don't see where you have errored...just follow up her call as the poster above me mentioned and you'll get your answer.
 
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Yeah i agree with Herman, your on the right track. The only thing i would suggest is that you don't ask her if she likes you. You shouldn't tell her either , if it's goin to work , it will.
 
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