"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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elmnick

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I hate to be asking questions related to my specific situation, I don't really think its what sosuave is for and for that I apoligise in advance, but yet...

Basically:
I like girl, know her reasonably well, not good friends though, been texting her for a while also(haven't spoken on phone before), lil flirty maybe, nothing much
She probably has it figured that I like her, no idea if she likes me, though we get on well
I ring intending to see if she wants to get together Thursday evening, dunno if she would have said yay or nay, no reason why she would say nay though, but nothing ventured nothing gained
her phone was off
she texts saying "sorry I missed you..another time...not now though cause its bedtime"

what is my best move now? :confused:

and yes, I do feel a bit silly asking this on an internet forum, but SoSuave is no place for pride methinks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Heman6

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I don't see where you have errored...just follow up her call as the poster above me mentioned and you'll get your answer.
 
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Westwind

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Yeah i agree with Herman, your on the right track. The only thing i would suggest is that you don't ask her if she likes you. You shouldn't tell her either , if it's goin to work , it will.
 
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