"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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so theres this girl...

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yea. so theres this girl. i see her every where. like,at mcdonalds in TWO different towns, at walmart, school (shes a year younger than me), and just... around. well, she looks pretty good and i want to get to know her more. she has a boyfriend thats a redneck/geek/idiot. i wanna get to know her more but i dont want to come off as a stalker or anything.im i guess what you would call one of the more-popular people but not very many people know her. i dont want to go out or anything i just want to become friends (but i wouldnt mind goin out, if u get my drift). what should i do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bigw

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Become friends with her, use the same techniques as anyone would to get hooked up, but only so much that she recognises you as a friend (if that's what you really want). However, if you do want her to go out with you, I'm out of my league here, but some luck may be involved (i.e. her breaking up with her bf).
 

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Make up your mind first off. Either you want her or you don't, there is no middle ground. Just go up and talk to her, or do something near her and talk to her. Then go from there.
 
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