In my quest to stop having sex with ho's, sluts, and single moms, I met this girl at the gym about two months ago. She didn't seem very interested. So I forgot about her. I didn't see her for about a month but I saw her again tonight. I talked to her for about five minutes. I still don't think she is really interested because she doesn't ask me any questions. I'm the one who asks the questions. She also cannot make eye contact with me, she always looks down or away sometimes. So it's been very brief encounters. Today I noticed that she changed her hair so I said "You look different, is it the hair or something?" She touched her hair and said "yeah (smiling)". I said "it looks nice (smiling). She started smiling and blushing a little. Then I had to go and was running late so I said "well, have a good workout". She said "okay bye". So what's the next move? I have no idea if she's single or whatever. I have been playing it cool but don't know what the hell I should do next. Just ask her out? I don't see too much interest.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
So there's this chick at the gym.....
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
sharkbeat
Master Don Juan
You know, you could've asked her out right there.trent81 said:
I know I could have, but I guess you can never take it too slow with women. I just don't see too much interest to lay myself out there, besides, the encounters have been very brief. This is only the second time I have spoken to her. I just found out where she works today. Very, very brief encounters.