In my quest to stop having sex with ho's, sluts, and single moms, I met this girl at the gym about two months ago. She didn't seem very interested. So I forgot about her. I didn't see her for about a month but I saw her again tonight. I talked to her for about five minutes. I still don't think she is really interested because she doesn't ask me any questions. I'm the one who asks the questions. She also cannot make eye contact with me, she always looks down or away sometimes. So it's been very brief encounters. Today I noticed that she changed her hair so I said "You look different, is it the hair or something?" She touched her hair and said "yeah (smiling)". I said "it looks nice (smiling). She started smiling and blushing a little. Then I had to go and was running late so I said "well, have a good workout". She said "okay bye". So what's the next move? I have no idea if she's single or whatever. I have been playing it cool but don't know what the hell I should do next. Just ask her out? I don't see too much interest.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
So there's this chick at the gym.....
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
sharkbeat
Master Don Juan
You know, you could've asked her out right there.trent81 said:
I know I could have, but I guess you can never take it too slow with women. I just don't see too much interest to lay myself out there, besides, the encounters have been very brief. This is only the second time I have spoken to her. I just found out where she works today. Very, very brief encounters.