I have talked to her a couple times but she is always with her friend (haven't met her friend). She doesn't introduce me to her so whatever. I have talked to her in passing a couple times but I have no idea if she is single. The problem is that I see her now once a month since she says she switched to swing shift. Is it okay to ask this broad's friend if she is single? I was going to introduce myself to her friend and just ask if she was single and that she was pretty cute. Her friend is married I believe. Then, I was going to say something like "well thanks, maybe I'll ask her to do something with me next time". Is it bad to ask her friend? Remember, I rarely ever see her now. And when I do, she is working out with her friend and I feel awkard asking her out during their workouts. I have to catch one of them alone I think.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
So there's this chick at the gym I go to.....
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I'd ask the friend. If I can't ask the girl directly or while she's alone and the girl doesn't even notice me, I have to take some form of action. Waiting too long might result in her having a boyfriend.