I have talked to her a couple times but she is always with her friend (haven't met her friend). She doesn't introduce me to her so whatever. I have talked to her in passing a couple times but I have no idea if she is single. The problem is that I see her now once a month since she says she switched to swing shift. Is it okay to ask this broad's friend if she is single? I was going to introduce myself to her friend and just ask if she was single and that she was pretty cute. Her friend is married I believe. Then, I was going to say something like "well thanks, maybe I'll ask her to do something with me next time". Is it bad to ask her friend? Remember, I rarely ever see her now. And when I do, she is working out with her friend and I feel awkard asking her out during their workouts. I have to catch one of them alone I think.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
So there's this chick at the gym I go to.....
- Thread starter trent81
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
nismo-4
Moderator
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2005
- Messages
- 4,438
- Reaction score
- 1,142
I'd ask the friend. If I can't ask the girl directly or while she's alone and the girl doesn't even notice me, I have to take some form of action. Waiting too long might result in her having a boyfriend.