I have talked to her a couple times but she is always with her friend (haven't met her friend). She doesn't introduce me to her so whatever. I have talked to her in passing a couple times but I have no idea if she is single. The problem is that I see her now once a month since she says she switched to swing shift. Is it okay to ask this broad's friend if she is single? I was going to introduce myself to her friend and just ask if she was single and that she was pretty cute. Her friend is married I believe. Then, I was going to say something like "well thanks, maybe I'll ask her to do something with me next time". Is it bad to ask her friend? Remember, I rarely ever see her now. And when I do, she is working out with her friend and I feel awkard asking her out during their workouts. I have to catch one of them alone I think.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So there's this chick at the gym I go to.....
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I'd ask the friend. If I can't ask the girl directly or while she's alone and the girl doesn't even notice me, I have to take some form of action. Waiting too long might result in her having a boyfriend.