"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So the market sucks?

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These women are just all class. Amazing thing to bring up to a potential suitor...
Well I was the one drilling her with questions. I cared less about getting with her than I did just about obtaining information about how they work. She lives 90 minutes away, anyway.

I realized I would much rather be in the **** buddy category. I don't know why they aren't picking me for that. I think my d1ck is good enough. Aside from the fact that I barely talk to them (or anyone).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well I was the one drilling her with questions. I cared less about getting with her than I did just about obtaining information about how they work. She lives 90 minutes away, anyway.

I realized I would much rather be in the **** buddy category. I don't know why they aren't picking me for that. I think my d1ck is good enough. Aside from the fact that I barely talk to them (or anyone).
The f*ck buddy category is either for guys women find attractive, but don't make good arm candy OR for guys way out of a woman's league.

Women become f*ck buddies for high VALUE men in hopes that the guy will eventually want more. They also become f*ck buddies for low value men based on pure attraction, but the guy is too low status to be a boyfriend or husband.

If you are her type and in her league and she can show you off to her friends, family, co-workers, etc. then you won't be a f*ck buddy.
 
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