"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So the market sucks?

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These women are just all class. Amazing thing to bring up to a potential suitor...
Well I was the one drilling her with questions. I cared less about getting with her than I did just about obtaining information about how they work. She lives 90 minutes away, anyway.

I realized I would much rather be in the **** buddy category. I don't know why they aren't picking me for that. I think my d1ck is good enough. Aside from the fact that I barely talk to them (or anyone).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well I was the one drilling her with questions. I cared less about getting with her than I did just about obtaining information about how they work. She lives 90 minutes away, anyway.

I realized I would much rather be in the **** buddy category. I don't know why they aren't picking me for that. I think my d1ck is good enough. Aside from the fact that I barely talk to them (or anyone).
The f*ck buddy category is either for guys women find attractive, but don't make good arm candy OR for guys way out of a woman's league.

Women become f*ck buddies for high VALUE men in hopes that the guy will eventually want more. They also become f*ck buddies for low value men based on pure attraction, but the guy is too low status to be a boyfriend or husband.

If you are her type and in her league and she can show you off to her friends, family, co-workers, etc. then you won't be a f*ck buddy.
 
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