"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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so the dj bible says be a king but...

sosilky

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In the bible is says to be the king of your kingdom. the mindset is judge if girls are worthy to be a part of that kingdom. And it is believed that you focus on your goals life etc. and the girls will follow. I'm not saying this won't work but won't it just bring on a differnt breed of girls? If your a self centered narcissist only concerned with himself then yes girls will come....dependent ones that are willing to work around your schedule because they feel value from being with you. Why would i want someone in my life that has the charecteristics we in this forum look down on?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sosilky

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Ok

the "genuinely good guy" treats women THE SAME! NOT worse. Not better. THE SAME. For she is no goddess. And she is no slave. She is woman, and he loves her as so.

OK so are you saying the genuinley good guy can slay any girl no matter what kind the are? secure or insecure?
 

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that King of your Kingdom stuff is just reminding guys not to let their sense of value be based on women (it's just a poetic way of saying, don't be needy). It's not a tactic or somethign to do. It's just a reminder or a wake up call, depending on your experience level
 

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It's not saying to be a self centered narcissist it is just saying that girls are not more important than yourself. Let's be honest here. YOU are the most important person in YOUR life. You create your own world.

Ditto the guys above.

A geniely good guy doesn't 'slay' girls, he will simply attract the right kind of girls for HIM based off of his own mature personality. He doesn't play them or hunt them. I'm assuming the geniuenly good guy would naturally attract more secure women (which is a good thing) but that is definately not to say they can't attract 'insecure women'.

I think your overthinking ^^
 
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