In the bible is says to be the king of your kingdom. the mindset is judge if girls are worthy to be a part of that kingdom. And it is believed that you focus on your goals life etc. and the girls will follow. I'm not saying this won't work but won't it just bring on a differnt breed of girls? If your a self centered narcissist only concerned with himself then yes girls will come....dependent ones that are willing to work around your schedule because they feel value from being with you. Why would i want someone in my life that has the charecteristics we in this forum look down on?