"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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so the dj bible says be a king but...

sosilky

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In the bible is says to be the king of your kingdom. the mindset is judge if girls are worthy to be a part of that kingdom. And it is believed that you focus on your goals life etc. and the girls will follow. I'm not saying this won't work but won't it just bring on a differnt breed of girls? If your a self centered narcissist only concerned with himself then yes girls will come....dependent ones that are willing to work around your schedule because they feel value from being with you. Why would i want someone in my life that has the charecteristics we in this forum look down on?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sosilky

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Ok

the "genuinely good guy" treats women THE SAME! NOT worse. Not better. THE SAME. For she is no goddess. And she is no slave. She is woman, and he loves her as so.

OK so are you saying the genuinley good guy can slay any girl no matter what kind the are? secure or insecure?
 

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that King of your Kingdom stuff is just reminding guys not to let their sense of value be based on women (it's just a poetic way of saying, don't be needy). It's not a tactic or somethign to do. It's just a reminder or a wake up call, depending on your experience level
 

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It's not saying to be a self centered narcissist it is just saying that girls are not more important than yourself. Let's be honest here. YOU are the most important person in YOUR life. You create your own world.

Ditto the guys above.

A geniely good guy doesn't 'slay' girls, he will simply attract the right kind of girls for HIM based off of his own mature personality. He doesn't play them or hunt them. I'm assuming the geniuenly good guy would naturally attract more secure women (which is a good thing) but that is definately not to say they can't attract 'insecure women'.

I think your overthinking ^^
 
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