"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
So tell me ladies...
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Do it.
Just don't hurt/kill anyone because you're too p*ssy to live your own life.
Shut the f**k up, stop blaming women for everything, and take some responsibility for yourself.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Ahhh...
that hurst sooooo bad...
so tell me...I'm blaming women for everything...dude I am successful in EVERY other area of my life. I am a successful businessman, musician, I represent my country at a national level in sport. And you tell me to take responsibility for myself...hmmm doesn't make sense does it.
Listen buddy, I'm looking for help here...if all you can do is give me sh!t like that , YOU shut the fvck up...kapish you mutha ****a??
The thing is, I have no problem at all usually applying myself to problems in my life. I have overcome a LOT of obstacles. Yet this is one of those situations - the harder you try, the less you get. Frustrating.
Basically I'm saying there is some anger there from previous experiences (I have very few positive experiences with women in my life), I add it all up and yeah, it doesn't seem worth it. And at the same time this is a basic need of every man. The contradictions are driving me nuts.
Squirrels was just trying to give you a slap in the face to wake you up. He's not trying to piss you off intentionally. If he didn't care to help you, he would have never posted in the thread to begin with. Your pissy, angry reaction towards him shows me that you're operating from a pissy, angry place. Make sure you figure out whatever it is that's making you pissed off.
It's not the women themselves. *They* aren't fcvking you up. It's the way you're reacting to what's happening. What are your goals? What is your issue? You said that it won't help if you post your problem but it's certainly not going to help to post a vague sentence or two telling us how much you hate women.
squirrels
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No, it doesn't, does it?Originally posted by Zircon
that hurst sooooo bad...
And you tell me to take responsibility for myself...hmmm doesn't make sense does it.
Why is it you can act so passionately and effectively with these other things, but when it comes to women, you repress the very drive that pushes you to excel at everythign else, until you're on the verge of doing something "stupid?"
Why don't you tell us what this "stupid" thing is that you're going to do? No one is being "held in suspense" by your mysteriousness.
We cant' help you, and no woman is going to come on here and give you realistic advice if you're going to make vague threats against them.