"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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so suavers beware

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Theres an enemy amongst us. Trying to stifle ur dreams and desires...

If you ever leaned back on the chair your sitting on as a kid...you know that feeling....that one split second...oh shyt...im gonna die...no control having....approach anxiety....thats public enemy number one. Call that fvcker out...maybe then we would see more dudes approaching and high fivibg each other....

Why do the 20% fvck all the girls....they work together. Rsd dudes work together....jocks...musicians...actors...lawyers...surgeons...porn stars...

You get the idea.

Anyone down to have an awesome saturday in frisco tommorrow....dress sharp...be sharp...look shwweeettt...and let the honeys sting you.

In short...im a babe magnet...and im not going to down play that because im also smart and care about my mom and dad and love my job, etc...

If you need a new way to handle women...my fee is 3 shots of rum lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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man some day I am gunna fly up there for the weekend and take you up on this haha sounds like a good time. I would really like to go out for a night of drinking/pick up fun with someone that understands the DJ mentality. All my buddies are afraid to approach and while I am talking to a girl that has a friend with her my buddy doesnt say a word to her friend, makes things so difficult.

How is the nightlife in SF?
 
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_sideways_ said:
Theres an enemy amongst us. Trying to stifle ur dreams and desires...

If you ever leaned back on the chair your sitting on as a kid...you know that feeling....that one split second...oh shyt...im gonna die...no control having....approach anxiety....thats public enemy number one. Call that fvcker out...maybe then we would see more dudes approaching and high fivibg each other....

Why do the 20% fvck all the girls....they work together. Rsd dudes work together....jocks...musicians...actors...lawyers...surgeons...porn stars...

You get the idea.

Anyone down to have an awesome saturday in frisco tommorrow....dress sharp...be sharp...look shwweeettt...and let the honeys sting you.

In short...im a babe magnet...and im not going to down play that because im also smart and care about my mom and dad and love my job, etc...

If you need a new way to handle women...my fee is 3 shots of rum lol
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holy **** m8, i lold at all of this sh1t can alwyas count on SS for a great laugh.
 
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are you wasted or just stupid?
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I think i met you out....you were the boring guy while i kept the convo going with 2 girls...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dk1990S111 said:
man some day I am gunna fly up there for the weekend and take you up on this haha sounds like a good time. I would really like to go out for a night of drinking/pick up fun with someone that understands the DJ mentality. All my buddies are afraid to approach and while I am talking to a girl that has a friend with her my buddy doesnt say a word to her friend, makes things so difficult.

How is the nightlife in SF?
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Its not great....u have to work ur way in..
 
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