"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Theres an enemy amongst us. Trying to stifle ur dreams and desires...

If you ever leaned back on the chair your sitting on as a kid...you know that feeling....that one split second...oh shyt...im gonna die...no control having....approach anxiety....thats public enemy number one. Call that fvcker out...maybe then we would see more dudes approaching and high fivibg each other....

Why do the 20% fvck all the girls....they work together. Rsd dudes work together....jocks...musicians...actors...lawyers...surgeons...porn stars...

You get the idea.

Anyone down to have an awesome saturday in frisco tommorrow....dress sharp...be sharp...look shwweeettt...and let the honeys sting you.

In short...im a babe magnet...and im not going to down play that because im also smart and care about my mom and dad and love my job, etc...

If you need a new way to handle women...my fee is 3 shots of rum lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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man some day I am gunna fly up there for the weekend and take you up on this haha sounds like a good time. I would really like to go out for a night of drinking/pick up fun with someone that understands the DJ mentality. All my buddies are afraid to approach and while I am talking to a girl that has a friend with her my buddy doesnt say a word to her friend, makes things so difficult.

How is the nightlife in SF?
 
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_sideways_ said:
Theres an enemy amongst us. Trying to stifle ur dreams and desires...

If you ever leaned back on the chair your sitting on as a kid...you know that feeling....that one split second...oh shyt...im gonna die...no control having....approach anxiety....thats public enemy number one. Call that fvcker out...maybe then we would see more dudes approaching and high fivibg each other....

Why do the 20% fvck all the girls....they work together. Rsd dudes work together....jocks...musicians...actors...lawyers...surgeons...porn stars...

You get the idea.

Anyone down to have an awesome saturday in frisco tommorrow....dress sharp...be sharp...look shwweeettt...and let the honeys sting you.

In short...im a babe magnet...and im not going to down play that because im also smart and care about my mom and dad and love my job, etc...

If you need a new way to handle women...my fee is 3 shots of rum lol
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holy **** m8, i lold at all of this sh1t can alwyas count on SS for a great laugh.
 
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are you wasted or just stupid?
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I think i met you out....you were the boring guy while i kept the convo going with 2 girls...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dk1990S111 said:
man some day I am gunna fly up there for the weekend and take you up on this haha sounds like a good time. I would really like to go out for a night of drinking/pick up fun with someone that understands the DJ mentality. All my buddies are afraid to approach and while I am talking to a girl that has a friend with her my buddy doesnt say a word to her friend, makes things so difficult.

How is the nightlife in SF?
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Its not great....u have to work ur way in..
 
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