Naughty Ninja
Banned
The problem with So Suave posters is they're all attracted to low quality trashy women.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You mean it's not that ALL women are cheating, lying, two-faced, evil, conniving, scummy freaks?Naughty Ninja said:The problem with So Suave posters is they're all attracted to low quality trashy women.
White women are not like that, GSPshields.gpshields3 said:You mean it's not that ALL women are cheating, lying, two-faced, evil, conniving, scummy freaks?
It's that the men here have serious self esteem issues and project them onto women?
No way!??!
I like this iteration of gpshields better than number 2.gpshields3 said:You mean it's not that ALL women are cheating, lying, two-faced, evil, conniving, scummy freaks?
It's that the men here have serious self esteem issues and project them onto women?
No way!??!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
If the guy is virgin looser AFC with no life, then:Mercenary of Love said:1. Would she contribute to my life, or drain away my free time and energy?
2. Would I proud to be seen in a public relationship with her? Meaning - would you be fine with introducing her to your family or co-workers?
3. Do I enjoy banging her?
wtf? that's bs. i'm a virgin with no life and I just rejected a girl that wanted to be by my side because she was a huge ***** from the start when i met her and i knew she just wanted to **** me the first time i met her and that's why she was acting like a *****. it's not like i take any girl no matter how desperate the situation is just as long as she's hot. i'm not gonna let pride get in the way of what i feel like actually makes sense so yea you gotta learn your **** about virgins with no livesbackseatjuan said:If the guy is virgin looser AFC with no life, then:
1. Any woman would contribute to his life, even if she is a complete drain to his time and energy.
2. He has been seen so many years alone, so finally having a woman besides him would make him feel proud.
3. Of course. Jerking off is the thing of the past.
This is to show that everything is relative, and Jedem das Seine, to each his own. Now problem is not aiming low, but what life throws at you.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You call yourself the biggest pimp ever yet you're virgin, no surprise most of the advices given in this board recently contradict not only game but logic and common sense.thebiggestpimpever said:wtf? that's bs. i'm a virgin with no life and I just rejected a girl that wanted to be by my side because she was a huge ***** from the start when i met her and i knew she just wanted to **** me the first time i met her and that's why she was acting like a *****. it's not like i take any girl no matter how desperate the situation is just as long as she's hot. i'm not gonna let pride get in the way of what i feel like actually makes sense so yea you gotta learn your **** about virgins with no lives
True... true...omega05 said:You have to crawl before you can walk
Since I'm obviously a virgin by choice you might wanna explain how I can't still be a pimp dumbass.Who Dares Win said:You call yourself the biggest pimp ever yet you're virgin, no surprise most of the advices given in this board recently contradict not only game but logic and common sense.
Do yourself a favour, since you are new to the board, bother yourself to read some messages before bashing other users when you disagree.
Im sure the user backseat juan didnt mean to offend any virgin or provoke anybody, what he actually meant was that even "low quality" girls would be a good step for a guy with no experience or past.
I agree with that, bad experiences in the beginning allow you to have good experiences later and in most of the cases are a necessary step to grow personaly,emotionally and sexually.
Virgin by choice. Yeah, me too!thebiggestpimpever said:Since I'm obviously a virgin by choice, you might wanna explain how I can't still be a pimp dumbass.
lol "bad experiences in the beginning" aww whodareswin has some embarrassing sexual experiences. :crackup: how cute
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.