"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If this site had a So Suave mass sarge/ meetup where everyone who post on this site met up at some club what would it look like in your opinion? Would we all arrive in Limos or the Short bus licking the windows while wearing our SS helmets?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Can you take a look at my pof profile? Check your pms.
 

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Bunch of guys standing around talking to each other and drinking beer. A few ugs trolling the dance floor.
 

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bmxcetera said:
Bunch of guys standing around talking to each other and drinking beer. A few ugs trolling the dance floor.

And or trying to out "alpha" one another, while the rest critique every move each other makes or doesn't, clothing choice, hairstyles, the rest going into deep thought on social dynamics or going off about muscles, money, misandry and every other thing under the sun.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm envisioning a lot of unibrows and a large, brown rape van.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
And or trying to out "alpha" one another, while the rest critique every move each other makes or doesn't, clothing choice, hairstyles, the rest going into deep thought on social dynamics or going off about muscles, money, misandry and every other thing under the sun.

Hah...

While a group of 3 random guys, totally unrelated to SoSuave, are out showing positive energy, having fun, working the crowd, and meeting women.
 

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Meast1525 said:
hahaha you'd see most guys bring blow guns with darts dipped in sedatives, acme rape kits, bottles of chloroform and packs of gum with roofies!!! haha

While others wouldn't make it as they'd be too busy be preparing their Pedo vans for Monday morning school day with "Free Candy" painted on the back doors and sets of handcuffs soldered to the floor.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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An SS party would be fun.

It would have to be at an Internet cafe (or next door to one) because after each girl you approach and number close, you would have to log on SS and post a question about whether you should call or text her lol.
 

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I'd be packing a taser. As soon as I felt one of you Goonies getting a little too "animated" over this SoSuave shizz in a public setting I'd have to make you go "nite-nite bunny wabbit".
 

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Just to alert the other older SS members, I'll be sporting neon green tennis balls on the feet of my walker. Just a heads-up to avoid a fashion clash.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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with several hugging their keyboards, avoiding eyecontact and sweating at the thought of being out in public, terrified of meeting the real men they tried to flame anonymously online. :crackup:
 

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I'd be chilling at the bar playing it cool, waiting for some lame to hit on a chick and offer her to buy her a drink so we could both laugh at it...easiest pickup there is...other than POF that is...lol
 

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I'm pretty sure a meet-up has been done before, and generally don't have too big of a turn out. Only really work in large cities where a lot of the members are in close proximity.

If a meet-up did happen, I think we'd probably be shocked at how some of the fellows DJ's look first off. Then probably a lot of coaching would be going on.

If I had to schedule a meet-up, it wouldn't be at a bar. Probably a disclosed location where everyone could get familiar first and then hit up a club. But club girls are trash anyways. We'd see field reports in main discussion followed by a "What are these red bumps on my penis?" threads followed in the Anything Else section. :p

-Scars
 

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I'd pull up in a limo. A stretch escalade on 24's!

I'd be making moves while so many people are analyzing and contemplating on what works and what don't. Sure I'd get burned here and there, but there's gonna be some women who are gonna find out just how hard of a judge I am.

I'll be the guy who hi 5's everybody before taking the hot milf into chambers! :D
 
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I will be the first one to say it...I'm sure you guys feel the same. I'll be the first one to leave ;-)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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