"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So Suave is good but there is better

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'd recommend subscribing to email newsletters by dating gurus. Bristollair has some good stuff though, I'll give you that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hehe, that is funny! Mr MightyMate's petnickname was Jelly Bean:p

Now that I look back, he was hard up on what most women look for from a DJ. LTR's!!!!!

hehe, he so wanted people to view him as the king of LTR's.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
http://www.myjellybean.com/chat.html
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Did anyone notice that there were more threads in their Body Gripes section than their Fitness/Nutrition section? in addition to that, their Rate Me section has even more threads.

Kinda makes you go, Hmmmmmmmm........ ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Did anyone notice that there were more threads in their Body Gripes section than their Fitness/Nutrition section? in addition to that, their Rate Me section has even more threads.

Kinda makes you go, Hmmmmmmmm........ ;)
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And I thought it was just me when I noticed that the majority of gym-goers are male. Are women just lazy when it comes to working out?
 
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They're at a different gym, not all girls are looking to become buff, they want to be slender.

I've got chicks in my dance classes, in my tai chi class, and whenever I show up to karate, there they are. I see them jogging at six in the morning, and I see them in the sports section at work. There's girls that have sex to lose weight, and there are girls who play sports...

Don't only look towards YOUR gym for where the girls are SRT8UP
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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