****So Suave DJ's Official Late Night Interview Thread****

[Leisuresuitlegend]

I'd had a long running interview thread of SS posters years ago and turned into some pretty interesting reads. Let's see how it goes for 2017.

Each poster can reply below in their own post quoting or copy and pasting and answering the questions as truthful as they want in their own reply to this thread below. A sort of get to know a little about current and long standing posters.

We will do it in one thread instead of several a day like years ago.

Who's first? @guru1000 @bigneil @skinnyguy @Solomon @GhostOfCordon @marmel75 etc. anyone else feel free to answer the questions in your own reply below.

***Thanking all who participate in these interviews for your honest replies and interesting reads in advance.***

Here's your questions:

1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?

3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

5) How many chicks have you slept with?

6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not).

7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?

8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why? (IE: They offered the pvssy on a platter to you at a bar in conversation or even at yours or their place and you blew them off.)

9) How do you handle chicks who flake?

10) Most plates you've spun at one time?

11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?

12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

13) Are you currently working out/exercising?

14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..

15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?

17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

19) Favorite So Suave posters?

20) Thoughts on online dating?

21) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan or instead when you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?

22) If you could pass off one piece of advice to your fellow DJ what would it be?

23) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?

 

[bigneil]

1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?
In 2006 I was dating a girl who I was too big for who kept screaming "OW!" half way through sex. I wondered if she could maybe be stretched. She could not. But she did join and respond to my post and when I told members this was the OP girl they said "Keep you b!tch off the computer!".

2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?
It was my college nickname, but only because there was a Little Neil (who later became a 6 foot stone mason). It is NOT a reference to large genitals. That part is only a coincidence.

3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?
Worst: Send flowers to her work.
Best: Give her infinite space and she will come back to you.

4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?
No.

5) How many chicks have you slept with?
About 40.

6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not).
Best: Star Trek girl in blue dress.
Worst: Sleeping in bed with a girl who is on the far reaches of the bed.

7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?
No, but almost - with Star Trek girl I walked away and 7 weeks later she returned.

8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why? (IE: They offered the pvssy on a platter to you at a bar in conversation or even at yours or their place and you blew them off.)
No.

9) How do you handle chicks who flake?
I go on the date by myself.

10) Most plates you've spun at one time?
3 or 4. I realized I will always fixate on my favorite girl. I can't have backups. But I've learned that if a girl crosses me, a better woman appears, so I beg them to cross me!

11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?
Work out more. Fast. Diet. Study online.

12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?
Currently wearing jeans with a dress shirt and vest from 3 piece suit, and bow tie. Tonight girls said I was modern GQ. Shop at Jos. A Bank.

13) Are you currently working out/exercising?
Yes, MWF from 6am to 7am with a physical trainer.

14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..
Strip clubs.

15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)
Yes, when my last girl said she was in love with someone else. I said goodbye, waited 7 painful weeks, she reached out, and (slowly, over 2 weeks) I asked her to go away for the night and she said yes.

16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?
No. Marriage is a bad business contract for a man. No business man would ever sign an agreement to pay a depreciating asset a constant price.

17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?
Yes. Study Pook, Corey Wayne, Chris Canwell, Craig Kenneth and 33Secrets (M).

18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?
No, but wouldn't mind.

19) Favorite So Suave posters?
Anyone who challenges me.

20) Thoughts on online dating?
Never.

21) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan or instead when you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?
Last September I was with 3 beauties and managed to seduce all 3, date one for a year, kiss the second and date the third 9 months later. Currently dating two of them (in the last 5 days).

22) If you could pass off one piece of advice to your fellow DJ what would it be?
Give women infinite space to choose you.

23) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
Proud to be part of an Anti-Feminist movement that helped Trump win the Presidency.

Gentlemen, dress sharp, work hard and learn body language so you can find the women worth your time.

 

[marmel75]

1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?
Honestly can't recall...used to read a bunch of stuff by David D and I think somehow something I was reading or googled linked to this site.

2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?
No special meaning...75 is my year of birth, other than that no

3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?
Worst: Buy flowers/dinners/gifts
Best: Escalate in date and go for what you want

4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?
No
5) How many chicks have you slept with?
Somewhere in the 30s, but I was stuck on about 3 at age 30, so I REALLY was a late bloomer
6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not).
Worst: was so afraid to ask a girl out in college one of my buddies came with me, went to her room and she had 5 or 6 friends there and I stammered out some stupid thing to ask her out and her and all her friends burst out laughing and she was like "No, I'm sorry" and closed the door in my face.

Best: first same day lay...met up with a hot Asian chick, didn't think anything was going to go down really, bar was too noisy and she didn't really seem interested...suggested we switch bars and when we get there we end up sitting and talking for a few minutes and she asks if I mind if she goes out and changes(she came from work but apparently brough extra clothes with her)...she comes back in wearing this tight little dress and looking super hot...and I knew it was about to be on...ended up talking her home an hour later....fvcked her about 5 or 6 more times and then found out she was married and her husband found our texts/conversations...ejected before I ended up in the paper as a homicide victim.

7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?
Yes---used to happen frequently back in the days...I was terrible with women for many years.

8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why? (IE: They offered the pvssy on a platter to you at a bar in conversation or even at yours or their place and you blew them off.)
Yes---in college...I came back sophomore year in terrific shape...muscular, and ripped and literally missed out on at least 3-4 lays the first week alone as I think back on it...one day a girl from another floor was walking down the hall with her friend and they stopped in my room to talk to my roommate(he knew the friend from back home) and the other girl came in and came right over to me sat on my lap and said "I think we should go out this weekend" and I just laughed it off thinking she was joking...nope...found out she wanted to fvck my brains out later apparently, but by the time I did it was too late, she had a boyfriend already...another time a girl invited me to come over to drink in her room with some other people on the floor and suddenly all the other people just got up and left and made some weird excuse leaving me and her alone in the room...she kept moving closer and closer to me but I never made a move(I cringe thinking back on this). Had another girl who used to tell me she had dreams about seeing me in the gym working out and all kinds of other stuff about how she was thinking about me...super hot asian girl with a killer body... laughed it off thinking she was just being nice...nope...find out after she left for the summer one night as I was still there at a party with some people including her roommate that she had a major crush on me and was hoping I got the hint...I was brutal...I could have been a serious man ***** in college if I just took advantage of the opportunities that were there.

9) How do you handle chicks who flake?
Depends...sometimes it was a hard next, sometimes I'd joke with them about it and gave them another chance. Have gotten laid several times by a chick who initially flaked and then came out. Not a believer in the hard and fast next rule. I believe it needs to be more fluid and handled on a case by case basis.

10) Most plates you've spun at one time?
Five and that was too many...most I was banging at any one time was 3.5--one plate exited right around the same time I started banging a new one...

11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?
It was a long time since that was a situation---I killed OLD and typically kept pretty well stocked on plates...never let it even get to down to a single one once I got the count up to 3 or 4...actively looked to replace the bottom 2 at all times...almost had a cookie cutter approach that worked like magic for me that I developed.

12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?
Jeans, nice shirt, backwards cap...something about that looks really good on me or fits me...almost without fail the woman calls me a "bad boy" at some point on the first date or in the follow up texts...saw my success rate skyrocket once I started adding the backwards cap into the repetoire.

13) Are you currently working out/exercising?
Yes

14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..
I think anyway can be successful---obviously random places in the middle of the day are going to require more skill and typically be harder, but I think any of them can be successful. It also depends on the type of woman you are looking for and what you want. OLD was so easy for me, it became like shooting fish in a barrel...I typically do very well in social circle interactions...have a cousin I hang out with sometimes whose social circle has been a source of several bangs, all of whom pursued me while I was there in person the night it went down. He always messes with me about it and tells me he isn't going to let me hang out with him anymore cause I have banged too many of the girls and he has to listen to them tell stories at the parties about me when I am not there...unfortunately never got the one I really wanted, but that is a story for another time...

15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)
Yes...I have a unique ability to go no contact and delete a number and once I do that person has never existed and I forget about them. It is a blessing and a curse. Some days I think there is something wrong with me that I can be that heartless at times. I can do this with a person I have known for 20 years the same as I can do it with a person I've known for a week.

16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?
Already am.

17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?
I read the majority of it.

18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?
No

19) Favorite So Suave posters?
NaughtyNinja was very influential in turning myself and several others into OLD machines...his old POF threads were some of the best OLD threads ever written. Find Guru1000 to be very on the money with his posts usually

20) Thoughts on online dating?
Enjoyed it and was very successful at it.

21) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan or instead when you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?
got to a point where I KNEW the woman was going to be attracted to me and want to see more of me after a first date. Just unabashed confidence because I had become so successful on first dates that I was having to turn down second dates with women because I had no time, sometimes even if I banged them on a first date. Got to a point where the women almost always were either texting directly afterwards or early the next day about how much fun they had and how they wanted to see me again. Realized how far I had come from the guy who was clueless 15 years ago.

22) If you could pass off one piece of advice to your fellow DJ what would it be?
Never be afraid to escalate in date. Lay rate went up significantly when I started escalating in date and kissing within the first 20-30 minutes instead of waiting til the end of the date/not doing anything.

23) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
Site has become inundated with posters who I don't know whether to take them seriously or think they are trolls. Think there are several "serious trolls" who post stuff that sounds serious but then after interacting with long enough seem like they are just trolling with some of the stuff being said...post quality has gone down tremendously---posters continuously whining about not being able to get laid or asking about things that have been covered ad nauseum in threads exactly like their own if they would have just used the search button...