Naughty Ninja
Banned
Question: How in the hell do any of you know a "chick" who posts on here is actually a chick and not some dude cross dressing on a trollololol account?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
And you still failed to make a move and bang them. I suggest heavy nc before your ego takes a beatingsageproduct said:They showed me their boobs. ALL of them.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
He's more negative than Burroughsperseverance said:I like reading some female view points, I find their post more interesting than the sh*t that Don Gorgon and others post.
You can find a lot of female views on Loveshackperseverance said:I like reading some female view points, I find their post more interesting than the sh*t that Don Gorgon and others post.
Been there, done that and got the t-shirt. That site is full of total, utter bellends. I mean I'm not being funny here but every single person on that forum should be sectioned and sent to an asylum for the mentally deranged.PlayHer Man said:
He's a weirdo. You can tell he's spent the best part of two decades snorting lines of cocaine off his Dads ****.JohnChops said:He's more negative than Burroughs
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.