Naughty Ninja
Banned
Question: How in the hell do any of you know a "chick" who posts on here is actually a chick and not some dude cross dressing on a trollololol account?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
And you still failed to make a move and bang them. I suggest heavy nc before your ego takes a beatingsageproduct said:They showed me their boobs. ALL of them.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
He's more negative than Burroughsperseverance said:I like reading some female view points, I find their post more interesting than the sh*t that Don Gorgon and others post.
You can find a lot of female views on Loveshackperseverance said:I like reading some female view points, I find their post more interesting than the sh*t that Don Gorgon and others post.
Been there, done that and got the t-shirt. That site is full of total, utter bellends. I mean I'm not being funny here but every single person on that forum should be sectioned and sent to an asylum for the mentally deranged.PlayHer Man said:
He's a weirdo. You can tell he's spent the best part of two decades snorting lines of cocaine off his Dads ****.JohnChops said:He's more negative than Burroughs
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.