"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Stop asking others for advice on stuff like..... what's a ****y response for

the waitress that takes your order. Or if your female doctor

likes you because she gave you a physical. Don't ask everyone to

make all your decisions for you.

Think of sosuave.com like a coach. Yea, a coach. He can train you for your sport, but in the end you're the one playing the game based on what he taught you.

No offense to anyone who may have started a topic like this. But many members feel the quality of the posts went down. And that may be a reason why...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Boner da Stoner

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I hope I haven't started those kind of topics... Just as long as I had my own thoughts and I wasn't scared I am happy...

and the doctor gave me a physical last week, she gave me a little tug job after I ragged on her about not being able to keep her emotions in check(talked about acne at first, you know mood swings affect hormones n shiz) she left me blue ballin after she realized what she did though...

I so wanted to go all the way in her office
 

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Yo, DJ in making, do YOU know any smart comments I could use on a waitress?:p

Also, a parady on Homer simpson, "Don't worry Brain, Sosuave will do the thinking now.":)
 

DJ_in_making

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
I hope I haven't started those kind of topics... Just as long as I had my own thoughts and I wasn't scared I am happy...

and the doctor gave me a physical last week, she gave me a little tug job after I ragged on her about not being able to keep her emotions in check(talked about acne at first, you know mood swings affect hormones n shiz) she left me blue ballin after she realized what she did though...

I so wanted to go all the way in her officewavejams007
wtf? It was a real life example all along? lol

Originally posted by wavejams007
Yo, DJ in making, do YOU know any smart comments I could use on a waitress?:p
You: Baby your feet must be tired?
Her: Why because I'm working so hard?
You: No because you've been running through my mind all day.
Her: So are you single......:)
 
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Yo, DJ in making, I think either you or the forum messed up when you missquoted me. It is boner da stoner that said the physical exam tug story.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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fixed.
 
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