"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stop asking others for advice on stuff like..... what's a ****y response for

the waitress that takes your order. Or if your female doctor

likes you because she gave you a physical. Don't ask everyone to

make all your decisions for you.

Think of sosuave.com like a coach. Yea, a coach. He can train you for your sport, but in the end you're the one playing the game based on what he taught you.

No offense to anyone who may have started a topic like this. But many members feel the quality of the posts went down. And that may be a reason why...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I hope I haven't started those kind of topics... Just as long as I had my own thoughts and I wasn't scared I am happy...

and the doctor gave me a physical last week, she gave me a little tug job after I ragged on her about not being able to keep her emotions in check(talked about acne at first, you know mood swings affect hormones n shiz) she left me blue ballin after she realized what she did though...

I so wanted to go all the way in her office
 
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Yo, DJ in making, do YOU know any smart comments I could use on a waitress?:p

Also, a parady on Homer simpson, "Don't worry Brain, Sosuave will do the thinking now.":)
 
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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
I hope I haven't started those kind of topics... Just as long as I had my own thoughts and I wasn't scared I am happy...

and the doctor gave me a physical last week, she gave me a little tug job after I ragged on her about not being able to keep her emotions in check(talked about acne at first, you know mood swings affect hormones n shiz) she left me blue ballin after she realized what she did though...

I so wanted to go all the way in her officewavejams007
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wtf? It was a real life example all along? lol

Originally posted by wavejams007
Yo, DJ in making, do YOU know any smart comments I could use on a waitress?:p
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You: Baby your feet must be tired?
Her: Why because I'm working so hard?
You: No because you've been running through my mind all day.
Her: So are you single......:)
 
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Yo, DJ in making, I think either you or the forum messed up when you missquoted me. It is boner da stoner that said the physical exam tug story.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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fixed.
 
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