So sick of girls that get wet feet after the first few fvcks.

[thatfeel]

How do you guys handle girls that fvck you a few times casually then start getting flaky cause they start spewing things like "there's more to me than just my vagina"?

 

[BigM]

You deal with it just like any other **** test. Ignore their demands and continue with your goal with them. You are the most important thing in that relationship. If you agree to any little thing, in few days she is going to ask more. Say to her what you want and that it's the only way you two can see each other.

If she leaves, you know that she just wanted to manipulate you into LTR.

 

[Poon King]

Any woman you f*ck often enough will want more.

Remember that for most women.. sex is a tool or commodity she gives to a man so she can take something else from him. This is not to say women don't enjoy amazing sex. But society tells women they should not be having consistent sex with a man without getting anything extra out of it. It makes the woman feel cheap and slutty.

There are different levels of "casual". A woman can be strictly a booty call or she can be "friends with benefits" or she can be a non-exclusive girl you're "dating". Don't be afraid to use all these grey areas to your advantage.

In the end, if a woman wants a relationship she needs to earn it. She needs to make the proposition worth your while. I always tell women that I'm very independent and don't really NEED "a relationship" so if I'm going to be more serious I need a good reason. Spreading her legs is not "investment" and she should be told this. At the same time, cutting off sex will NOT work in her favor since you will view it as manipulation or low interest (as you should) and therefore be less inclined to consider her "relationship material".

Ultimately, if you actually enjoy the woman's company outside of sex then raise her to a higher level (still not exclusive though). If the sex is all you want then just let her go. Don't chase, replace.

 

[The Duke]

How do you guys handle girls that fvck you a few times casually then start getting flaky cause they start spewing things like "there's more to me than just my vagina"?

I'm not sure what you may have told her at the start, but being direct with your original intentions is a good way to filter and stay out of situations like this.

There's nothing you can say, she's figured out what you were after. You need to find a girl who is down for what you are looking for. ;-)

 

[SgtSplacker]

I'm not sure what you may have told her at the start, but being direct with your original intentions is a good way to filter and stay out of situations like this.

There's nothing you can say, she's figured out what you were after. You need to find a girl who is down for what you are looking for. ;-)

You don't even have to make a big deal out of it, just casually drop an "I'm not looking for anything serious just yet" and that's it.

 

[AttackFormation]

^^ That might work initially, but I've found girls don't like having sex without getting something in return. They may say, and even themselves believe that they just want to hang out and fvck too, but with most girls like PK said it won't sit right with them to just have sex even if you're not doing anything "bad" per se. They want to get more value out of their pvssy than just a mutually beneficial 50-50 deal of exchanging sex with you. That's my experience anyway, and the lower her interest & the more she thinks she can get away with, the more it will apply.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I've had this happen quite a bit...usually 4 or 5 times and then they go ghost or they say they don't see anything long term.

I've been told by a lot of women that they see me as a player and they are afraid I'd cheat on them.

So I guess it's their way of not getting too attached but still getting their world rocked a few times. It's whatever, luckily I'm able to keep churning out new prospects at will it seems like so I don't end up hurting at all...

 

[El Payaso]

It doesn't matter if you're direct with her at the start. She will eventually get bored of you or simply want to take things to another level. Once she withdraws the pu$$y, your best course of action is to simply find another pu$$y.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Women really say this!
If a women said this to me I would laugh out loud and I would point out that If she doesn't want sex she should stop coming round and letting me rail the **** out of her.
Or I would say that it wasn't true. I also liked her tits.
It is a pretty basic **** test. Treat it like any other, ignore it, agree and amplify, ****y and funny, etc etc.

 

[old_skoolr]

Honestly if you've fvcked them a few times and they still want more, why are you contacting them???

Let them contact you, it should be her putting in all the effort.

if she says something like what OP said, your reply should be, thats true, if you ever want this to stop just let me know.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Two variables for consideration, applied to both parties...

-SMV
-Interest Level

The following continuum applies; on a sliding scale, from ultimate benefit to ultimate dis-benefit for a guy.....

1) High SMV, High Interest Man + High SMV, High Interest Woman
2) Low SMV, High Interest Man + High SMV, High Interest Woman
3) Low SMV, Low Interest Man + High SMV, High Interest Woman
4) Low SMV, High Interest Man + Low SMV, High Interest Woman

5) High SMV, Low Interest Man + High SMV, High Interest Woman
6) Low SMV, High Interest Man + High SMV, Low Interest Woman
7) Low SMV, High Interest Man + Low SMV, Low Interest Woman
8) High SMV, High Interest Man + High SMV, Low Interest Woman

Could expand this right out to every possible combination, but I've already made my brain hurt just with these. You get the idea. SMV and Interest Level of both parties should be as closely aligned as possible for medium to long term success. It's is a man's responsibility to monitor these things and act accordingly. It's all too easy to meet a hot chick, go along and pay absolutely no attention to her interest level.