"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So shes asked me out to a fashion show

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i asked this gal who in the past has always said no when ive asked her out to hang out (4 or 5 times ive asked) weather or not she was good at football and wanted to play in a tournament with us (coz we need a gal) she said

no sorry but do ya wanna go to a fashion show with us?

now i know the us bit means its not a date, i dont know who us is but i can kinda guess (a couple of blokes and some gals i know)

its her sisters show at our college and i when it is, she said she doesnt know but she will buy my ticket for me

so i said let me know and date and ill let ya know if i can come

i probably can come wateva date it is, but should i? knowing that she hasnt hanged out with me when ive asked and knowing shes an attention seeker who i kinda liked in the past and im doing my best to forget about!

what should i say? yes/no? and lines i can use?

cheers for the help

and yes before you ask it is the same gal as who im chatting about in my other topic!
 

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Give us a link to your other topic, if we can read that as well you'll get better advice.
 
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Sarge the fuc.king models you tool.

She probably has no attraction to whatsoever, but if you have the social proof of the other attractive girls, then you never know... and you can always score something with the models.
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well if I went to this fashion show I'd be hitting on everyone in sight except the girl that asked me to come in these circumstances you describe.

You have no chance with the girl so you might as well have some fun!
 
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so i should go then?

problem is why should i do something with her whens she never done anything with me when ive asked her out with me and my mates?
 
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Looks like you haven't got much chance with the girl, though you may have. Don't analyse everything so much.

About the fashion show, one of my mates went to one at his college the other week. It was a case of staring at HB9s and 10s all evening. He enjoyed himself. You might as well go.

Flirt with lots of the girls there, since it will probably be full of good looking girls, and your only competition is likely to be pervy or gay. And make her jealous!
 
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