"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So shes asked me out to a fashion show

PeterCrouch

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i asked this gal who in the past has always said no when ive asked her out to hang out (4 or 5 times ive asked) weather or not she was good at football and wanted to play in a tournament with us (coz we need a gal) she said

no sorry but do ya wanna go to a fashion show with us?

now i know the us bit means its not a date, i dont know who us is but i can kinda guess (a couple of blokes and some gals i know)

its her sisters show at our college and i when it is, she said she doesnt know but she will buy my ticket for me

so i said let me know and date and ill let ya know if i can come

i probably can come wateva date it is, but should i? knowing that she hasnt hanged out with me when ive asked and knowing shes an attention seeker who i kinda liked in the past and im doing my best to forget about!

what should i say? yes/no? and lines i can use?

cheers for the help

and yes before you ask it is the same gal as who im chatting about in my other topic!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Give us a link to your other topic, if we can read that as well you'll get better advice.
 

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Sarge the fuc.king models you tool.

She probably has no attraction to whatsoever, but if you have the social proof of the other attractive girls, then you never know... and you can always score something with the models.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well if I went to this fashion show I'd be hitting on everyone in sight except the girl that asked me to come in these circumstances you describe.

You have no chance with the girl so you might as well have some fun!
 

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so i should go then?

problem is why should i do something with her whens she never done anything with me when ive asked her out with me and my mates?
 

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Looks like you haven't got much chance with the girl, though you may have. Don't analyse everything so much.

About the fashion show, one of my mates went to one at his college the other week. It was a case of staring at HB9s and 10s all evening. He enjoyed himself. You might as well go.

Flirt with lots of the girls there, since it will probably be full of good looking girls, and your only competition is likely to be pervy or gay. And make her jealous!
 
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