So, she took the initiative and asked me out?

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

That's the thing I didn't bring it up, she did - and that's the greatest thing. It's her idea. I just follow the 'Hang out, have fun, hook up' mantra. Just goes to show her level of interest is pretty high, a 6 or something.

Everything is natural this way. You do you, though.

Huge red flag if it’s within the two months. She’s trying to quick sale your arse.

 

[Sgthaytham]

Huge red flag if it’s within the two months. She’s trying to quick sale your arse.

'Quick sale my arse'?! haha

Why would it be a 'huge red flag'??

 

[2Rocky]

Have you had many LTR's so far?
Is she the "one to beat?"
Or do you just want to keep her around?
are you willing to lose her if you say no to exclusive?

 

[Sgthaytham]

Have you had many LTR's so far?
Is she the "one to beat?"
Or do you just want to keep her around?
are you willing to lose her if you say no to exclusive?

I've had a fair few LTRs, yes.

I'm living in the now. Far too often in the past I was worrying about the future with a woman. Not anymore, and it feels better that way because I'm not constantly worried whether I will lose her or not.

 

[2Rocky]

I'm not constantly worried whether I will lose her or not.

Perhaps your answer to her is that she is "your favorite" at the moment.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

'Quick sale my arse'?! haha

Why would it be a 'huge red flag'??

She wants to lock you up ASAP because she’s hiding something.

 

[Sgthaytham]

She wants to lock you up ASAP because she’s hiding something.

Baseless claims. Stop projecting.

 

[Sgthaytham]

Perhaps your answer to her is that she is "your favorite" at the moment.

Yeah something like that.

She's a cool girl. Great humour and banter. I'll see how it goes with her, but live in the moment.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Baseless claims. Stop projecting.

I will screenshot this and when you come back to this forum crying about her turning cold I will post it.

 

[Sgthaytham]

I will screenshot this and when you come back to this forum crying about her turning cold I will post it.

That was your cue to explain to me your reasoning.

If you can't, then there's no reason for you to be on this thread.

Screenshot all you want.

 

[SW15]

But be very conscious of the Idealisation, Devaluation and Discard cycle that high-interest women often go through. It can be hard to see a woman go from aggressively pursuing you to a sudden drop in interest. Not being negative, but we see it all the time. Stay frosty!

Women who are unmarried and childless are more prone to doing this. Especially if they are older. Another reason not to discard the single mom category.

I agree on unmarried and childless women doing this, since that's who I've been exclusively dating. Seen it happen to me.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I agree on unmarried and childless women doing this, since that's who I've been exclusively dating. Seen it happen to me.

Unmarried and childless past 35 is a red flag for me. Something usually doesn't add up

 

[BackInTheGame78]

the fact that she's 35 is a redflag full stop. Old Hag/Redflag

I don't want to put my d1ck in an old tunnel of smelly, saggy skin

Some of the best sex I've ever had were with women between 35-40, you are missing out due to nonsensical beliefs

 

[SW15]

Unmarried and childless past 35 is a red flag for me. Something usually doesn't add up

Someone turning 35 today was born in 1987, multiple years into the Millennial generation. Millennials have been known for staying unmarried and childless later into life. I don't think unmarried and childless at 35 is as applicable anymore as it once was.

Some of the best sex I've ever had were with women between 35-40, you are missing out due to nonsensical beliefs

There are still attractive and good at sex women between 35-40.

 

[Sgthaytham]

I will screenshot this and when you come back to this forum crying about her turning cold I will post it.

I thought so. ****ing melt.

 

[Sgthaytham]

Her flatmate is a pain in the arse. Literally flirting with me right in front of my gf...