"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So She Digs Me - What Next?

Adam

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I've been gaming this cute blonde for a month or so and I'm pretty damn pleased to say the path of the DJ iz teh r0xxorz. Yup, she digs me; everything gone pretty smoothly, I've been laying on the c&f and the kino and she's been soaking it right up, proving it today by asking me to go with her to a fair this coming Monday.

At this point I'm stumped.

It seems everything I've been learning from these forums is geared towards getting the chick to like you, but what do you do when she does?

Cheers
Adam
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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labrat

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:crackup:
Nothing of course, you forget her and work on getting another girl to like you!
 

ARrocket

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labrat said:
:crackup:
Nothing of course, you forget her and work on getting another girl to like you!
lol I hope you didn't take that seriously.

It all depends on whether or not YOU like HER.
 

SinJester

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Keep doing what your doing, that's all you need to do ;)

Seriously don't go into AFC mode now she likes you :p
 

Scars

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Comfort stage now. Make her trust you. Be a little more "real" with her. No need to pull out the C&F bs anymore. Unless that's just how you naturally act.

I don't know what your intentions with this girl are, but if you want a relationship then start asking her out on dates and move towards that step. If you're looking for a fling maybe invite her to a party with you or something. I don't condone in getting girls drunk in order to have sex with them, but let me tell you, it deffinately speeds up the process.

Good luck.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

BeyondCharm

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Remain cool about her liking you. Continue doing what you've been doing and having fun with her.
 
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