"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So She Digs Me - What Next?

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I've been gaming this cute blonde for a month or so and I'm pretty damn pleased to say the path of the DJ iz teh r0xxorz. Yup, she digs me; everything gone pretty smoothly, I've been laying on the c&f and the kino and she's been soaking it right up, proving it today by asking me to go with her to a fair this coming Monday.

At this point I'm stumped.

It seems everything I've been learning from these forums is geared towards getting the chick to like you, but what do you do when she does?

Cheers
Adam
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nothing of course, you forget her and work on getting another girl to like you!
 
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labrat said:
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Nothing of course, you forget her and work on getting another girl to like you!
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lol I hope you didn't take that seriously.

It all depends on whether or not YOU like HER.
 
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Keep doing what your doing, that's all you need to do ;)

Seriously don't go into AFC mode now she likes you :p
 
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Comfort stage now. Make her trust you. Be a little more "real" with her. No need to pull out the C&F bs anymore. Unless that's just how you naturally act.

I don't know what your intentions with this girl are, but if you want a relationship then start asking her out on dates and move towards that step. If you're looking for a fling maybe invite her to a party with you or something. I don't condone in getting girls drunk in order to have sex with them, but let me tell you, it deffinately speeds up the process.

Good luck.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Remain cool about her liking you. Continue doing what you've been doing and having fun with her.
 
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