"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So over it.

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I cannot dispute any of the above but I have a predisposition to smash young. Infertility and cratered SMV doesn't make my D hard.
I hear ya. I know a lot of women loose their sexual splunk as they age. My GF still has plenty of young girl pheromones left in her at 46. She still make my 45yo D very hard.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Advice from the old lady:

Women are not going to cross a man they respect. They might call it like they see it (I do) but they aren’t going to outright disrespect a man they value. Take that to the bank.

If you slip or are not high value? All bets are off.

My suggestion is to look in the mirror and see how you stack up. If you are fit, intelligent, successful, handsome, charming & stylish with moxy?

You’ll slay.

If you aren’t? Quit complaining and get to work on the dude in the mirror.
This. No reason to add anything to it as she said it quite well.

If you want to attract more women 10+ years younger then you need to appeal to more women in that range. You wont attract them all but you will attract more.

Women in their 40s are looking for different things than a woman in her mid 20s. You have fit the part they are looking for.

It takes more work to attract women 10+ years younger unless you're just blessed with perfect genetics.
 

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I hear ya. I know a lot of women loose their sexual splunk as they age. My GF still has plenty of young girl pheromones left in her at 46. She still make my 45yo D very hard.
Thanks for sharing but pull it. Misc detectives. There's doxin.

There's no two ways about it. Its a headache. I don't envy men today nor the situation most are in. There's nothing but abundance but guys settling for stupidity.

I don't fathom monogamy. Its beyond me.
 

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Thanks for sharing but pull it. Misc detectives. There's doxin.

There's no two ways about it. Its a headache. I don't envy men today nor the situation most are in. There's nothing but abundance but guys settling for stupidity.

I don't fathom monogamy. Its beyond me.
you mean pull the pic I posted ??
 
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