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Now I've seen it all.
Now I've seen it all.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
scrouds said:I need a tshirt:
"I (heart) skinny chicks"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Okay, there are my thoughts. I don't mean to be a d8ck, but please make sure you know what you're talking about! It's okay to have to look something up! A wise man is wise because he knows his limits!Pathgen said:I think you are missing an essential part of the argument. Fat exists to keep people alive. True, fat is used as a storage facility. Every single person has a little bit of fat in them, no matter how hard they try to get rid of it. Without fat, we would die.You were right that in the old days fat was more attractive, but the truth of the matter is that this was not only because starvation would kill the poor people. The people who could manage their fat better would survive. The trick was not "managing" your fat. Did they have treadmills back in those days? No. Being fat was an attractive quality because it showed that they had access to a surplus of food. It was not simply "managing their fat" like we do today, it was having enough food to produce fat!
In the modern world if you have money you can get food. There is the problem with the obesity issue. It may not always be the food you want but living in the modern world we never run out of energy to supply our bodies with. True, this is what I was trying to reach, but you said it a much more straight-forward fashion. Kudos. More calories intaken than used= weight gain. Simple Biology.
However for people with no food the ability to store fat and use it wisely to keep your body alive could give you an extra couple of days over somebody who does not have that evolutionary ability. If you were lost in the desert with no food you could burn off the fat you stored to keep you going. Making Fat a Desirable Trait. Like I said, every human has fat- some just have more than others. And for your desert example, there is a flip side to that. While a heavyset person might outlast a regular person in the race for food (but by only a bit), they would lose in the water race! Fat (like blubber) is a very good insulator. It will keep the extra heat in their body. (Ever notice how fat people tend to sweat a lot and relatively easily? This is why). Since their body has more heat, they will try and cool off by sweating more. More sweating=less water. Bye, bye fat kid.
Now in todays society, like I stated earlier, if you have money chances are you can get food for energy. So here comes the interesting part. Skinny chicks are more desirable to us because our brains are programmed that way. Ever since you were born you have been reinforced that skinny was more attractive. True again. Society has programmed us to think that skinnier=more attractive. But this has lead to conditions like anorexia and bulimia. And for quite a while, we had a big problem with these two conditions. That's why I think we are trying to find a good balance of the two- someone who can manage themselves (skinny) but knows not to go over the edge (fat).
That is how powerful our brains are. Examples of this can be seen in like how you said being fat used to be more attractive or how the Japanese used to **** up young girls feet because they thought that was more attractive. I agree that our brains are powerful- mind over matter!
In the future if there is a food shortage, which could very well happen, what may happen is all the people with the desirable metabolism now will die out. Those with the ability to store and manipulate fat will have the advantage. I'm sorry, but no. Absolutely not. This one, you're completely wrong. I don't know why you said this, but you're completely wrong. Let me explain. Firstly, what makes a person gain weight? Your answer should be: when the calories intanken are more than the calories used. And to do so, you normally have to eat a fair amount of food (as in the 3k+ range). And what does eating 3k calories require? A larger appetite. And if there is a food shortage, food will be rationed evenly between all people. This means that less food will be given to each person. So if we can only eat 1.8k worth of a calories a day, then who will it impact the most? The guy eating 2k calories, or the guy eating 3k calories? Your body will have two choices- reduce appetite and weight to survive, or suffer. Fat people will the ones hit the HARDEST by a food shortage, not vice versa.
And do you even know what metabolism means? Your metabolism is your ability to digest (aka break down) your food. People with a high metabolism are skinner because they digest more of their food to use in various tasks in the body, so therefore, less is stored as fat!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Nowadays we like to see good skeletal definition.iqqi said:Back in the day, the fertility goddesses were pudgy. I hear that was "ideal".
I love that. If you have the body to pull it off, it's a huge DHV with the right amount of ****yness. If you're generally a fun guy, rocking that shirt while you're in great shape is money.Rollo Tomassi said:Heheh,..
There's a guy at my gym (who's in peak condition) who wears this shirt:
"Maybe if you dropped a few"
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.