"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So nexted girl contacts me back, some feedback pls?

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So had a date with this girl, in day time and despite her being very feminine and friendly any attempt of escalation didnt work till out of frustration I told her I had to work and cutted it short.

Few brief messages following it, till she didnt replied to the last one, therefore I deleted her number and skype.

This happened about in september, this morning I wake up and I get a text from her saying hi and asking how am I.

Its not the first time stuff like this happens so I know what to do but when it comes of human emotions I always ask for feedbacks from external parts, I didnt mind this girl and if the escalation went well I could have even invested on her, yet her not replying to my last message really pissed me off.

She looked into me while dating and the second date was even scheduled from her, however I know the trick of many girls to boost their ego to contact guys who nexted them.

What is your opinion about it? suggested actions?
I was considering to reply this evening with a brief polite close message and see if she was gonna do some work or not.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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same thing happened to me last christmas...reply her with a short and polite message,but dont save her no...allow her to show some level of interest before you invest you time in her again.goodluck
 

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Her: "hi X, how are you?"

Me: "hi everything fine, hope the same to you"

replied after 4 hours and got no reply from her since, she either wanted me to think about her and is happy or wanted to check the situation and got annoyed.
 
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