"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So nexted girl contacts me back, some feedback pls?

Who Dares Win

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So had a date with this girl, in day time and despite her being very feminine and friendly any attempt of escalation didnt work till out of frustration I told her I had to work and cutted it short.

Few brief messages following it, till she didnt replied to the last one, therefore I deleted her number and skype.

This happened about in september, this morning I wake up and I get a text from her saying hi and asking how am I.

Its not the first time stuff like this happens so I know what to do but when it comes of human emotions I always ask for feedbacks from external parts, I didnt mind this girl and if the escalation went well I could have even invested on her, yet her not replying to my last message really pissed me off.

She looked into me while dating and the second date was even scheduled from her, however I know the trick of many girls to boost their ego to contact guys who nexted them.

What is your opinion about it? suggested actions?
I was considering to reply this evening with a brief polite close message and see if she was gonna do some work or not.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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same thing happened to me last christmas...reply her with a short and polite message,but dont save her no...allow her to show some level of interest before you invest you time in her again.goodluck
 

Who Dares Win

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Her: "hi X, how are you?"

Me: "hi everything fine, hope the same to you"

replied after 4 hours and got no reply from her since, she either wanted me to think about her and is happy or wanted to check the situation and got annoyed.
 
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