"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So my GF's not so "innocent" after all, what to do..

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Actually, I'm old enough to be your mother...so "kid" doesn't apply.

British men tend to have bad attitudes towards American women...and usually assume they are all feminists. I find that to be both annoying and offensive because I am an anti-feminist. However, on this very forum I have been attacked many, many times by British (and a few Canadian) men who automatically assume I'm a feminist. On a few occassions I was actually saying the SAME thing they were saying and they were STILL attacking me and treating me like some radical feminist. That is what my comment about you being British meant. As politically incorrect as it is to say that men from certain countries annoy me...it's true. Of course there are a few exceptions, but it's happened enough where I've noticed a pattern.

Okay, we're off topic...but if you want to start a thread in Anything Else I'll respond to you there.
I call people kid regardless of age. It's a term of endearment.
YOU attacked ME.

I'm an anti-feminist too. We probably see eye to eye on this, so let's be friends.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Alpha Male
I call people kid regardless of age. It's a term of endearment.
YOU attacked ME.

I'm an anti-feminist too. We probably see eye to eye on this, so let's be friends.
I didn't attack you...I made a sarcastic joke (hence the big grin smiley face).

I explained the joke in the other post. If it doesn't apply to you then don't worry about it.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
I didn't attack you...I made a sarcastic joke (hence the big grin smiley face).

I explained the joke in the other post. If it doesn't apply to you then don't worry about it.
OK, it just can come across differently online. No hard feelings:)
 

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Do not back the chick unless you know her personally.

I have had a f*ck buddy for the longest time...maybe 8 yrs. We tried breaking it off when she got married but couldn't, she wasn't getting quality sex. Eventhough she got caught a couple of times she somehow managed to sneak...and yes we are considered friends but when we go to a movie we are surely having sex....by the way, she lives 45 mins away but that doesn't stop her.

So my advice is be wary.....try and fulfil her sexual desire and see whether she comes back for more.
 

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Originally posted by Adrian
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Most girls like sex. But..... That doesn't mean they should go around f***ing everyone. It's wrong for a guy to do it but it's even more wrong when a woman does it. It's a hard thing to swallow when you find out that the woman you have feelings for was f***ing her "fb" like she was in a hardcore porn flick. Most guys find that very insulting. And it is. You really can't blame them for being insecure.


who said she was ****ing everyone? it was one guy for christ sake. I would 2 have a problem if she ****ed a differnt guy every night. This was just one guy, they were just not in a relationship. I dont see it necessarily as insecure. Maby at the time she was horny but did not feel like a relationship, you never know
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i mean i would be shocked 2 if i heard it cause im not perfect but i would not freak out like this.

What she did then is her business as long as she donst bring baggage in now.

Now if she was a nymph, having sex to fill a void and that kept went into the relationship, that would be different.

If a man has true confidence, and she tells them his, he will be mindful but knows she is with HIM now. if she does it again, she knows she gets the good old boot. But why would she go back to that if she is with a real man? she gets eveything she needs
 
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