"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So my friend didn't introduce me

NotaNewbie

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So me and my friend was just hanging out chilling, and talking. It started to get late so I decided to go home, I didn't have a subway fare that day so my friend was going to swipe me in with his fare he decided he wanted to wait for the subway with me because it was so late. His friend (The HB) came into the station to take the subway too (but she was going the other direction), and they started having small talk like i wasn't there.. She then said "Well i have to get going what are you doing here?" and thats when i had my only chance to say something and i said "he's here waiting with me for the train" with a smile and she just said "oh" and proceeded to get into the station. So my question is.. Next time I'm in a situation like this what is the proper way to introduce my and self and make small talk?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alkali

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It sounded like you were purposely excluded.

They probably have a thing for one another.

Don't worry about it, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
 

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Alkali said:
It sounded like you were purposely excluded.

They probably have a thing for one another.
They hardly know each other.. They know each other from one of their friend that introduce them so its not like they know each other.. and i know for a fact she doesn't have a thing for him. The only reason i cant get her out of my head is because shes a 8 and i cant believe i let that get away..
 

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"Hi, I'm NotaNewbie" Anyone?

But yeah I know what you mean, I hate friends who are gay like that.
 

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Eh its all right. Friends are supposed to piss you off every now and then. Otherwise they're not your friend.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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hey wasup, Im swifty.

seeings as my friend isn't gonna introduce me here *shoot him a glance* I'll have to do it myself *smile*

repeat again "Im swifty". she'll probably laugh.

and then lata

"yeah yeah, he was just bein a ****. I think he has like the hots for you or somethin"

that should blow him out of the water and bingo your in. but if its a good friend i wouldn't.
 

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swifTy said:
hey wasup, Im swifty.

seeings as my friend isn't gonna introduce me here *shoot him a glance* I'll have to do it myself *smile*

repeat again "Im swifty". she'll probably laugh.

and then lata

"yeah yeah, he was just bein a ****. I think he has like the hots for you or somethin"

that should blow him out of the water and bingo your in. but if its a good friend i wouldn't.
Mad rep points for this one. :up:

You show confidence and make your friend look like an insecure little creep. As they say all is fair in love and war.
 
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You can't make every moment a sosuave encounter. :rolleyes:
 

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Some friends never introduce me to their female friends either - only if we hangout with them. But if they just bump into each other somewhere and small talk they usually don't introduce me, so I guess I should get some new friends. :whistle:

I say live with it. Some people are like that. You can easily just chime in and introduce yourself as I usually do. Just go ahead when you get the chance take their hand and shake it 'hey I'm smooth, I'm ____'s friend."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fred Da Head

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Whatever happened to bros before a gardening instrument?

By just being a little b***h to your friend because he may have slighted you, like swifTy suggested, it just shows YOU as an insecure little boy who wants approval so bad you're willing to stab your friend/buddy in the back to get it.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
You can't make every moment a sosuave encounter. :rolleyes:
Agree. Certain things need not be discuss on SS.
 

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i had that happen to me recently...so i just started asking her questions and talking to her without even asking for her name. I wasnt really interested so i didnt care enough to get her name besides it seemed like he had the hots for her so that made it a even a bigger no no. I follow "bros before hoes" especially if the girl isnt anything special.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Most people these days are borderline socially retarded. Too much time spent on the internet.
 

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Fred Da Head said:
Whatever happened to bros before a gardening instrument?

By just being a little b***h to your friend because he may have slighted you, like swifTy suggested, it just shows YOU as an insecure little boy who wants approval so bad you're willing to stab your friend/buddy in the back to get it.
An insecure little boy that will be nailing your friend tonight.... :crackup:

Seriously i'm having less and less male friends these days. They're just not as good as pvssy is to me. The better i get the more guys start hating... because they see the attention i get from women and my guy friends, well **** half em just want to use me for girls.

I have my buddies that i would never do that to, but that's a small few.
 
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