"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So my F**K Buddy put me in the Friend Zone...Arghh!!!

st_99

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I'm thinking there is no way to flip this around but maybe I could get some
suggestions...

We went from hanging out, doing the going out having fun thing and having Great sex (yeah, it was good for both of us) to doing
a complete 180 and cutting it off and telling me we should just be friends..

But here's the kicker she still hangs with me on weekends!?!:confused:

Not sure what the hell happened but damn this sucks. I was never needy, didn't give her all my time, turned her down for hanging out a couple times...etc. In other words didn't act AFC.

Sooo, what now...can I get back in the pants?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bigjohnson

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Sounds liek she's either got a BF (not likely if she's still hangin' w/ you on weekends) or she has rethought that whole FB idea and wants to lock you down. Once it gets to that place it's tough to flip, but you have to use what you know about her and women.

One thing for sure - if she's not screwing you, why are you spending weekends w/ her? Once you think that one through the solution is pretty obvious.
 

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bigjohnson said:
One thing for sure - if she's not screwing you, why are you spending weekends w/ her? Once you think that one through the solution is pretty obvious.

Right, I just had to take her out a couple times just to confirm that this is what was really going on, but now I know..
 

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I've had girls do that. Then a couple weeks later they invite me back to their beds. I have a couple girls that I've been doing this with for a couple YEARS now. Guess who they call when they're in between boyfriends? or heartbroken? or just lonely or horny? If she's just a fukkbuddy, dont sweat it. find another, and shell show up when you least expect it.
 
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