"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So my F**K Buddy put me in the Friend Zone...Arghh!!!

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st_99

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I'm thinking there is no way to flip this around but maybe I could get some
suggestions...

We went from hanging out, doing the going out having fun thing and having Great sex (yeah, it was good for both of us) to doing
a complete 180 and cutting it off and telling me we should just be friends..

But here's the kicker she still hangs with me on weekends!?!:confused:

Not sure what the hell happened but damn this sucks. I was never needy, didn't give her all my time, turned her down for hanging out a couple times...etc. In other words didn't act AFC.

Sooo, what now...can I get back in the pants?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sounds liek she's either got a BF (not likely if she's still hangin' w/ you on weekends) or she has rethought that whole FB idea and wants to lock you down. Once it gets to that place it's tough to flip, but you have to use what you know about her and women.

One thing for sure - if she's not screwing you, why are you spending weekends w/ her? Once you think that one through the solution is pretty obvious.
 
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bigjohnson said:
One thing for sure - if she's not screwing you, why are you spending weekends w/ her? Once you think that one through the solution is pretty obvious.
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Right, I just had to take her out a couple times just to confirm that this is what was really going on, but now I know..
 
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I've had girls do that. Then a couple weeks later they invite me back to their beds. I have a couple girls that I've been doing this with for a couple YEARS now. Guess who they call when they're in between boyfriends? or heartbroken? or just lonely or horny? If she's just a fukkbuddy, dont sweat it. find another, and shell show up when you least expect it.
 
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