"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So my F**K Buddy put me in the Friend Zone...Arghh!!!

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I'm thinking there is no way to flip this around but maybe I could get some
suggestions...

We went from hanging out, doing the going out having fun thing and having Great sex (yeah, it was good for both of us) to doing
a complete 180 and cutting it off and telling me we should just be friends..

But here's the kicker she still hangs with me on weekends!?!:confused:

Not sure what the hell happened but damn this sucks. I was never needy, didn't give her all my time, turned her down for hanging out a couple times...etc. In other words didn't act AFC.

Sooo, what now...can I get back in the pants?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sounds liek she's either got a BF (not likely if she's still hangin' w/ you on weekends) or she has rethought that whole FB idea and wants to lock you down. Once it gets to that place it's tough to flip, but you have to use what you know about her and women.

One thing for sure - if she's not screwing you, why are you spending weekends w/ her? Once you think that one through the solution is pretty obvious.
 
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bigjohnson said:
One thing for sure - if she's not screwing you, why are you spending weekends w/ her? Once you think that one through the solution is pretty obvious.
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Right, I just had to take her out a couple times just to confirm that this is what was really going on, but now I know..
 
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I've had girls do that. Then a couple weeks later they invite me back to their beds. I have a couple girls that I've been doing this with for a couple YEARS now. Guess who they call when they're in between boyfriends? or heartbroken? or just lonely or horny? If she's just a fukkbuddy, dont sweat it. find another, and shell show up when you least expect it.
 
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