"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So my date with the 23 y/o milf was weird

blueline

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It turned out that she had a boyfriend (baby's daddy) she lived with and seemed to intend on staying with. It'd be cool to help her cheat, but the town they're is known to be a ****ty place full of crooks/drug dealers, so I feel like I missed out on nothing.

Anyways, a couple hours later, I go to a party and am feeling pretty good. I chat up the nearest cutie that I ask for a cigarette and boom we end up talking for 2 hours (not my style, I typically try to get decent kino going within 10-15 min) and then make out a few times. Unfortunately, she's from NYU and lives like 2 hours away from me, so nothing is likely to come out of this. If this party were closer to my crib, a friend's place, or hosted at a mutual male friend's place, I would've got it done last night. Also, she's friends with all the hot chicks I wanna bang (they're all 8's and 9's, she's a 7), so is this gonna end up hurting me if nothing happens or if I actually do end banging her?

Also, should you make out with the chick the first time you meet her? I'm starting to think 'no.' I've gotten laid more times when it's just a short kiss right before you leave rather than a few 2-5 minute long make-out sessions.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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blueline said:
It turned out that she had a boyfriend (baby's daddy) she lived with and seemed to intend on staying with. It'd be cool to help her cheat, but the town they're is known to be a ****ty place full of crooks/drug dealers, so I feel like I missed out on nothing.

Anyways, a couple hours later, I go to a party and am feeling pretty good. I chat up the nearest cutie that I ask for a cigarette and boom we end up talking for 2 hours (not my style, I typically try to get decent kino going within 10-15 min) and then make out a few times. Unfortunately, she's from NYU and lives like 2 hours away from me, so nothing is likely to come out of this. If this party were closer to my crib, a friend's place, or hosted at a mutual male friend's place, I would've got it done last night. Also, she's friends with all the hot chicks I wanna bang (they're all 8's and 9's, she's a 7), so is this gonna end up hurting me if nothing happens or if I actually do end banging her?

Also, should you make out with the chick the first time you meet her? I'm starting to think 'no.' I've gotten laid more times when it's just a short kiss right before you leave rather than a few 2-5 minute long make-out sessions.
Blueline let me guess you met the "grenade" on pof?

Dude you dodged a bullet, I have nothing positive to say about single mothers (espeically as of late) my experiences hasn't been that good with them.

Sounds to me you dodged the bullet

In terms of your make out theory I agree with you to an extend, make outs are great for "flash game" but it all depends on your connection with a girl. To a lot of girls making out in the club isn't a big deal.

In terms of the chick you met, don't put to much energy into it, keep her number around if you ever head her way or she comes back your way that's one you can get up with (hang out)

peace
 

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Solomon said:
Blueline let me guess you met the "grenade" on pof?

Dude you dodged a bullet, I have nothing positive to say about single mothers (espeically as of late) my experiences hasn't been that good with them.

Sounds to me you dodged the bullet

In terms of your make out theory I agree with you to an extend, make outs are great for "flash game" but it all depends on your connection with a girl. To a lot of girls making out in the club isn't a big deal.

In terms of the chick you met, don't put to much energy into it, keep her number around if you ever head her way or she comes back your way that's one you can get up with (hang out)

peace
I actually met the single mom at a bar around here. She basically approached me.

Yeah, I met the girl I made out with last night at a house party. Kissed her in front of her two BFFs with no discretion. I think she really liked me, given how we could talk for like two hours without getting massively sexual. She texted me this afternoon saying to give her a call if I'm ever in the New York area.

So ya, that is good. Onto the next girls. The one thing that sucks is I totally want to bang her bff's friends. I think one or two of them likes me and they're totally banging.
 
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