"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So much bullsh1t on the phone

TheGambino

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This girl is interested I think so... 3 months ago we set up a date and she flaked and I started to respond very late and ignore her texts, I simply moved on with 1 strike rule..

After that she started to double text, then call, I didn't pick up any of her calls I wasn't interested anymore and I had another plate going on at that moment.

She started to triple text with question marks, trying to reschedule and after 2 weeks she gave up.

Anyway I saw her a week ago real quick in a cafe and told her to call me after our short convo.
She did today. I had a phonecall of like 30 minutes. She was only bragging about other people, howmany guys with porches were hitting on her every week in the club and that she keeps refusing their offers everytime.

I don't enjoy talking to her, she only blablablas and it's all bullsh1t to be honest lol. I act interestd because I want to f8ck her eventually. Anyway she said this lol: 'I was talking to this rich guy in a club, he bought me drinks all night then expected me to leave with him, ofcourse I refused that offer dudududud blablalba' 'He expects a girl to tell him hes the best in everything and that a girl does everything for him *with a tone that she doesnt like that kind of guys' I replied: hahaha I'm like that myself she replied with 'okay' and changed subject.

f8ck that lol I do want that kind of girl so ill tell her straight up.

Anyway dont u guys get tired of girls that badmouth everyone and tells you over and over howmany guys she turned down and rejects everyday... and why do they do this..

I got a date set up with this girl, lets see if I can escalate and make her shup up a little and actually do something lol what do u guys think
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rainman4707

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Hmm, go for it! She sounds like a bit*h. Get her drunk..it will lower her defence.
 

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You're playing it like a man.... good job.

Only though her actions will you know the truth. All these stories about other guys is only designed to remind you she is desireable (true or not). The fact that she is going out with you is all that matters. But she is communicating something to you that you need to remember (true or not)... she is telling you that she doesn't like braggers or weak behavior, because all the guys she supposedly rejected bragged about their cars, bought her drinks (weak @ss behavior).

When a women starts bad mouthing guys... LISTEN CLOSELY... she is giving you hints about what she doesn't like. Don't tune this out... she is giving you VALUABLE intel.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Tell her that sh!t is a real turnoff. Then just stop talking to her. You don't need her in your life. And she will most likely try and come back to you because you showed her (even after her arrogant babbling about random crap) that you don't think that she is all that.
 
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