So Most Good Looking Guys End Up Marrying Average-Looking/Not So Good Looking Women?

[Scaramouche]

Dear Frank,
This post is remarkable,not so much for its content,but for the quality of the Posts...There is not one post here that I can't wholly agree with...This site has some very wise and experienced posters...but the prize has to go to Jitterbug...
"What I would prefer, if I had the options ? is to do what my ancestors used to do: marry one who's good wife and mother materials (average looking is fine), and have the hotter mistresses on the side"!
When it comes to LTR's I would always chose a Woman who is good in the sack and (the two don't always come together)has a high libido!

 

[glass half full]

That pride and ego is present in pretty much all above average chicks these days. Meaning everything 6 and above. I don't really plan to "settle down" and get married regardless. But an average woman can change on you after the wedding just like a hot one. Also, a hot woman will eventually lose her looks after a certain age and having kids. So marrying for looks is a game you can't win.

Also, you have to keep in mind most women try to "marry up". If they can't marry up financially or status wise.. they will look to do so genetically (good looking men).

A woman who is a 9.5 or 10 isn't going to chase after a 10 guy who works in an office. She is going to chase Bradly Cooper. These days there are lots of 8+ women who stay single well into their 30's waiting for a man "up to her standards". I've met lots of attractive 40+ women who are big time cougars. They just can't leave behind the life of a "young hot chick" and refuse to settle down unless its with Tom Brady or a young hot guy half her age so she can feel/seem young and hot.

Everything modern women do is for their ego. Its a big d!ck measuring contest among women. Not about love or emotions at all. Its about bragging rights.

+1 on that last paragraph.

 

[sodbuster]

I married a SMART 7 with athletic ability in the family. It carried over to my sons, Just hope the B!tchy didn't. What I look for NOW? NICE, no drama, and of course good looking enough to make my "putter flutter" NOT looking at 9's and all the work I have to do to land them.... I HAVE a job.

 

[potato]

Just to throw a bump into your theory. I think of myself as a very good looking guy and typically, if a woman is not the prettiest woman in the room, I’m not all that interested. In my mid twenties I married a hot woman and she bore me two children. I always wanted good looking children and would never have married a woman who couldn't contribute to that end. I ended up having to divorce her because, being a hot chick, she turned into a b!tch from hell. Anyhow I got custody of the kids and we have been living happily ever after.