"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So me and my baby mama start talking again...

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Well we started talking again and we was talking about maybe being back together and. Whatever well she's on my snapchat and was getting mad cuz I hinted I had a girl (I know I'm playing games) and that I maybe had a baby on the way (more games) well get down to the point,we were talking about being together. Thursday she was telling me she missed me and today she like I got a boyfriend wtf. I think she's playing games with me but I'm not sure I care but I don't. haven't seen my daughter with her in over a year almost ready to take her to court but I need a good suit to show her hey hoe you screwed up. I'm also thinking about getting back on pof but I'm not photogenic at all lbs Anyway any help on this situation would be greatly appreciated.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Take her to court and cut contact from this nutcase. Also quit playing those stupid games man, that's for women. They can see right through it dude, which is why she turned it back around on you.

The only way I can see this turning out well is if she was just teasing you with the whole "I have a boyfriend" thing. If she was serious or being b!tchy, drop her. Normally I would say completely give up on this one, but if you think that you actually do like this woman and could live a happy life with her, do it with the best interest of your child in mind.
Hey fam I take all advice seriously shes a jealous person I'll cut contact with her and go for my daughter soon. Your right the games I've been playing is wack. Plus I'm mature enough to want her to be happy and I hope she is thank you
 

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P.s I honestly would've dumped her but shot we got a baby together ill just stay strong for the kids
 
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