"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So me and my baby mama start talking again...

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Well we started talking again and we was talking about maybe being back together and. Whatever well she's on my snapchat and was getting mad cuz I hinted I had a girl (I know I'm playing games) and that I maybe had a baby on the way (more games) well get down to the point,we were talking about being together. Thursday she was telling me she missed me and today she like I got a boyfriend wtf. I think she's playing games with me but I'm not sure I care but I don't. haven't seen my daughter with her in over a year almost ready to take her to court but I need a good suit to show her hey hoe you screwed up. I'm also thinking about getting back on pof but I'm not photogenic at all lbs Anyway any help on this situation would be greatly appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Take her to court and cut contact from this nutcase. Also quit playing those stupid games man, that's for women. They can see right through it dude, which is why she turned it back around on you.

The only way I can see this turning out well is if she was just teasing you with the whole "I have a boyfriend" thing. If she was serious or being b!tchy, drop her. Normally I would say completely give up on this one, but if you think that you actually do like this woman and could live a happy life with her, do it with the best interest of your child in mind.
Hey fam I take all advice seriously shes a jealous person I'll cut contact with her and go for my daughter soon. Your right the games I've been playing is wack. Plus I'm mature enough to want her to be happy and I hope she is thank you
 

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P.s I honestly would've dumped her but shot we got a baby together ill just stay strong for the kids
 
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