"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So many excuses she gives, how to respond?

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meathead said:
Oh well. I'm still waiting for her to make contact. As before, we'll see what happens.
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Don't wait for her to contact you, just put her on the backburner and get on with life. Keep yourself occupied, hang out with friends, hit the gym, indulge yourself in your hobbies and interests.

Just forget about her completely. What the situation with you two at the moment, meathead?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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perseverance said:
Don't wait for her to contact you, just put her on the backburner and get on with life. Keep yourself occupied, hang out with friends, hit the gym, indulge yourself in your hobbies and interests.

Just forget about her completely. What the situation with you two at the moment, meathead?
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its hard or 90% of men to do that due to few options and high desperation levels.. sad times now..
 
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its hard or 90% of men to do that due to few options and high desperation levels.. sad times now..
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If I can manage it Don then there's no reason why other men cannot. There is no such thing as "I can't" in my vocabulary just "I can".
 
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the trick is to not fall back into your old interest-killing ways if she comes around you again in the future

don't be so available and don't reward her with access to your valuable time and attention when she hasn't earned it
 
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