"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So many excuses she gives, how to respond?

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meathead said:
Oh well. I'm still waiting for her to make contact. As before, we'll see what happens.
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Don't wait for her to contact you, just put her on the backburner and get on with life. Keep yourself occupied, hang out with friends, hit the gym, indulge yourself in your hobbies and interests.

Just forget about her completely. What the situation with you two at the moment, meathead?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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perseverance said:
Don't wait for her to contact you, just put her on the backburner and get on with life. Keep yourself occupied, hang out with friends, hit the gym, indulge yourself in your hobbies and interests.

Just forget about her completely. What the situation with you two at the moment, meathead?
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its hard or 90% of men to do that due to few options and high desperation levels.. sad times now..
 
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its hard or 90% of men to do that due to few options and high desperation levels.. sad times now..
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If I can manage it Don then there's no reason why other men cannot. There is no such thing as "I can't" in my vocabulary just "I can".
 
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the trick is to not fall back into your old interest-killing ways if she comes around you again in the future

don't be so available and don't reward her with access to your valuable time and attention when she hasn't earned it
 
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