"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So, made out with chick at bar, got her number - what's my next move?

The_Reaper

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I'm from a fairly small city - more of a town really.

What advice do you guys have? Text her the day after? (It was a nightclub, I gotta make sure she remembers me). Meet up in town to hang around? What?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wait 24 hours before you text her happy holidays. Make text responses slow as in respond an hour or 2 after. Try and plan another rendevouz with her but make it seem like you don't have time and your leaving the country for holidays next week.

This way you seem busy,not clingy, you got stuff going on, and like a hard catch. She should reciprocate with some effort.
 

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1337 said:
wait 24 hours before you text her happy holidays. Make text responses slow as in respond an hour or 2 after. Try and plan another rendevouz with her but make it seem like you don't have time and your leaving the country for holidays next week.

This way you seem busy,not clingy, you got stuff going on, and like a hard catch. She should reciprocate with some effort.
Cool, thanks man
 

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It sounds like this is new hat to you. Chances are, not having anything to do with you, that she flakes. Don't get your hopes up too much.
 
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