"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So, made out with chick at bar, got her number - what's my next move?

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I'm from a fairly small city - more of a town really.

What advice do you guys have? Text her the day after? (It was a nightclub, I gotta make sure she remembers me). Meet up in town to hang around? What?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wait 24 hours before you text her happy holidays. Make text responses slow as in respond an hour or 2 after. Try and plan another rendevouz with her but make it seem like you don't have time and your leaving the country for holidays next week.

This way you seem busy,not clingy, you got stuff going on, and like a hard catch. She should reciprocate with some effort.
 
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1337 said:
wait 24 hours before you text her happy holidays. Make text responses slow as in respond an hour or 2 after. Try and plan another rendevouz with her but make it seem like you don't have time and your leaving the country for holidays next week.

This way you seem busy,not clingy, you got stuff going on, and like a hard catch. She should reciprocate with some effort.
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Cool, thanks man
 
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It sounds like this is new hat to you. Chances are, not having anything to do with you, that she flakes. Don't get your hopes up too much.
 
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