"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So, made out with chick at bar, got her number - what's my next move?

The_Reaper

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I'm from a fairly small city - more of a town really.

What advice do you guys have? Text her the day after? (It was a nightclub, I gotta make sure she remembers me). Meet up in town to hang around? What?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wait 24 hours before you text her happy holidays. Make text responses slow as in respond an hour or 2 after. Try and plan another rendevouz with her but make it seem like you don't have time and your leaving the country for holidays next week.

This way you seem busy,not clingy, you got stuff going on, and like a hard catch. She should reciprocate with some effort.
 

The_Reaper

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1337 said:
wait 24 hours before you text her happy holidays. Make text responses slow as in respond an hour or 2 after. Try and plan another rendevouz with her but make it seem like you don't have time and your leaving the country for holidays next week.

This way you seem busy,not clingy, you got stuff going on, and like a hard catch. She should reciprocate with some effort.
Cool, thanks man
 

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It sounds like this is new hat to you. Chances are, not having anything to do with you, that she flakes. Don't get your hopes up too much.
 
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